meet s

(they/them)

Hi! I’m s! I’m a movement and strength coach, and personal trainer who specializes in working with queer and trans folks. My practice centers creating accessible and affirming training space with an emphasis on building strength and helping people move in their bodies safely and without pain. I have a background in Olympic lifting and powerlifting, and 8 years of group and individual coaching experience. Outside of coaching and training, I’m an educator, avid birder, and a general science enthusiast.

 

my story

I’ve been an athlete for as long as I can remember. Sport has always been a place where I’ve felt safe, free to express myself and move my body in affirming ways. In my early twenties as I began to grapple with my gender, I began to feel less and less comfortable in my body. I felt a lot of pressure to perform my gender in ways that were deemed more socially acceptable. I used exercise as a tool to try and change the outward appearance of my body, and my relationship with movement and my body became strained.

In 2017 I joined a weightlifting gym and began learning the fundamentals of strength training and Olympic lifting. I became inspired by the ways that my body could move, and by how strong I felt in it. I loved getting stronger and putting on muscle, and being part of a community where that was encouraged. It felt so affirming! But toxic fitness paradigms and the tools of white supremacy are pervasive, and my gym culture was not immune. There was unspoken pressure to achieve a mainstream fitness aesthetic. There was often emphasis on loading up weight over moving safely and sustainably. I continued to push my body to extremes, and I was rewarded for it with social capital and praise. But it came at a cost.

In 2019 I had just completed a coaching seminar and was beginning my work as a trainer when I suffered a severe nerve injury that left me barely able to walk for several weeks and unable to train for months. When I was eventually able to begin approaching my sport again, I had to reimagine what my training might need to look like to be supportive and sustainable. No more extremes, no more pushing through my body’s pain signals and dissociating. No more chasing aesthetics at the expense of my physical wellbeing. I started questioning the “expertise” of the predominant voices - cis-het, white, male coaches - and narratives in the fitness industry and instead tuned in to seminars and workshops that elevated marginalized voices in the fitness community. I listened to the experiences and expertise of other coaches with intersecting, marginalized identities. I started unpacking and uncoupling outward physical changes from movement and exercise. I shifted the focus of my own training towards building better foundations and embodying my strength, and began working with queer, neurodivergent (ND) coaches who could better empathize with and understand my needs as an athlete and as a trans person. I began healing my relationship with exercise, and with my body.

As I continue to train and move in ways that feel safe, affirming, and empowering, I feel more connected to and stronger in my body, more confident in myself, and more joyful in other aspects of my life.

 

my vision

I do this work out of a desire to support people (especially queer and trans folks) in moving their bodies and building strength in a way that feels safe and empowering. I want people to be able to find strength, ease, confidence, and joy in their physical bodies and in their everyday lives. I understand firsthand the challenges that come with physical activity and being aware of one’s body. I’ve also experienced the ways in which traditional fitness spaces and gyms emphasize outward presentation of the body as an indicator of fitness and success, and often alienate queer folks, trans folks, disabled folks, fat folks, non-white folks, women, and the elderly. I believe that movement and strength training is for everybody and every body. I take people’s comfort, wellbeing, and safety very seriously and work to create a accessible and affirming space for every individual to engage in strength training. My experience as a long-time teacher and a coach has taught me that people are the experts in their own bodies. I work closely with clients to develop individualized, performance-based goals, and create programs and adjustments to movements to meet each person’s specific needs. In all of my practice I emphasize work on mobility and physical strength, as well as building confidence and capacity both within and beyond our training sessions.

 

my experience

I have almost three decades of athletic experience ranging from competitive team sports at high school, collegiate, and recreational levels to individual training and competition in distance running and Olympic weightlifting. I have trained as a distance athlete and as a strength athlete, participating in road running, cycling, Olympic weightlifting, and general strength and conditioning. I have been coaching strength sports for 7 years, including group classes as well as 1 on 1 training. I received my CPT from the American Council on Exercise, and I hold certifications in Olympic weightlifting (USAW), kettlebell techniques, and trauma informed weight lifting (TIWL). Prior to coaching, I was a science teacher working in public education. I have a decade of classroom teaching experience (middle and high school, as well as undergraduate levels) and hold Masters of Science degrees in both Education and Biology.

 

my pricing

I use an equity-based pricing model to afford greater access to my services. I acknowledge that social inequities exist in the United States (and elsewhere) that systemically disadvantage individuals and groups, and that this creates barriers to access of services that are dependent on an individual's ability to pay for them. I use an equity-based tiered pricing model in order to address the financial imbalance between those with greater access to capital and institutional funding and those who have been disadvantaged and excluded.

Here is a financial self-reflection tool to determine which tier you are part of within the equity-based model. This tool was created using resources by Hadassah Damien (she/they), founder of Ride Free Fearless Money LLC. You can read more about this model here.

I offer an additional optional 5% discount for trans and nonwhite folks. Some scholarship funds are available on a case-by-case basis.

testimonials

  • “My relationship to my body, strength and athleticism has always been blocked by fear and insecurity, but in the past year of training with s, that has completely changed. s's nonjudgemental, encouraging, affirming, person-centered approach has allowed me to work at my own pace, while offering the structure and support I've needed to stay consistent. They've focused on my goals and my abilities, without any of the noise of a prescriptive trend or notion of how a body "should" be. I have never ever felt so good and strong in my own body.” - MT

  • As someone who is Covid cautious, but even in the beforetimes had a hard time structuring working out in my life, it's been fantastic to be able to work with s remotely from my house. I can work out on my own schedule and send them videos, knowing they'll send me feedback promptly and adjust my plan based on my progress, strengths, and areas for growth. s has also been incredibly creative helping me adapt programming so I can use the equipment and household items I already have without having to buy a bunch of expensive gym equipment.” - ME

  • s is a rockstar and they have revolutionized my life in the best of ways I’ve been working with them weekly over Zoom for the past 2 years. I’m a former NCAA Division I college athlete. Thanks to s, for the first time in my life, I’ve been exercising regularly solely for the sake of feeling great and moving my body. They created a steady onramp for me to return to fitness and movement for joy and wellbeing. Their expertise, attention to detail, and meeting me where I am at on any given day are invaluable. Count me in as a lifetime client! - JC

  • “Strength training has transformed my body and my life in so many ways. Beyond feeling stronger, my balance and how I move have both improved, and I feel more confident! s challenges me and encourages me every step of the way. I cannot recommend them highly enough as a trainer!” - BR

  • “Working with s I have seen such an improvement in my confidence, strength, and range of motion. s has worked with me to rehab muscle pain and tightness and listens to me when I tell them what is working for my body and what isn't. In the past, I've had coaches tell me to work through the pain and not listen to my concerns about programming that wasn't right for me. s makes sure to program exercises that work for MY body and never makes me feel insecure about what my body can or can't do. I definitely recommend hiring S as your coach. You won't be disappointed.” - RR

  • “The level of care s provides can’t be gained from a certification alone. The experience and skills s has as a trainer is the bonus. We work together to create my programming. The check ins are helpful and the platforms are easy to navigate. I thoroughly enjoy the virtual coaching s provides.” - IP

  • “s has a warm and encouraging approach, extensive knowledge and experience, and works with you to tailor a program to your abilities and your resources while motivating you to meet your goals. When gyms closed and things shifted online during the initial months of quarantine, S designed programming that helped keep me moving!” - LG

  • “I really enjoy working with s. Their programming is specific to me and dynamic in terms of loading. I feel challenged and excited to complete the workouts!” - AG

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